Why do people think of money before having children?

Are we gettin too sensitive? children r god's gifts. people who r very poor also have children and dere children live lyk everyone else. no matter how hard we think da situation iz we have da power to make things work. itz juz dat v don't realyze dat power. take dis example. a rich couple haz 5 kids and a poor couple also has 5 kidz. so whats da difference? it must make god so sad to see ppl getting so selfish.